Kristen Ni
Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. I work at my dads company ( My dad is pretty high up in the company) My boyfriends dad also works at the company and is even higher in rank than my dad. We both go to school in the mornings and work part time. I have 1 year left for my associates in arts, I was planning to get my masters and so was my boyfriend. I found out I am 3 weeks pregnant and I just need a plan. I have no clue what to do for money. What job can my boyfriend and I get that will allow us to provide for my baby. I grew up in a very comfortable lifestyle and I want to provide the same life for my kids, But how can I when I am not ready financially for this baby. any suggestions?
To answer Brie's Mommy, My last period was February 3rd, I looked online to see how far along I am after taking my test yesterday and it came back positive and they had me enter my last period and based on that I am 3 weeks and 2 days. I dont understand the math, Especially since I take Nuva Ring normally Continuously reccommended by my doctor but due to spotting I was told to take out the Nuva ring and let myself have a period for a week and then put it in. I took it out as instructed and once my period ended my boyfriend and I had sex so February 8 but I had not put a nw nuva ring in. I didnt think i could show up positive so soon?
What is your schedule like? with you and your boyfriend? I dont mean to be nosey but how much do you guys make an hour? How much is rent?? Just trying to get an idea of where i need to be at by the end of this 9 months. p.s- thanks your making me feel more at ease and like i can do this.
What is your schedule like? with you and your boyfriend? I dont mean to be nosey but how much do you guys make an hour? How much is rent?? Just trying to get an idea of where i need to be at by the end of this 9 months. p.s- thanks your making me feel more at ease and like i can do this.
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I am 21 years old, married, working, have 2 children (3 yr old son and 3 month old daughter), and going to school for nursing. so you can do it, it is possible. not the easiest, but possible.
my husband and i both work, we are renting a house, pay all of our own bills, and our children have more than they could need/want. money wise..our bills (rent, gas, electric, water, cell phones, house phone/high speed internet, car insurance, car payment, dish) come to roughly $1400 a month. i live in a small town so rent is cheaper here than other places. my husband works 40 hours a week monday through friday. currently im working 32 hours a week.
"Right now you're about 3 weeks pregnant. Your baby-in-the-making is a tiny ball of several hundred cells that are multiplying madly. In the next week or two, you may see a positive result on a pregnancy test." it is weird that you already have had a positive test. it is rather soon for this. your due date will be Nov. 10th. i know this because my last period before my daughter was feb 3rd, 2010, she was due nov 10th, 2010, and born nov. 13th. was your period that started on the 3rd normal? if it was lighter maybe you have been pregnant longer and it was just some bleeding (spotting or maybe implantation bleeding)? having a pd on the 3rd and conceiving on the 8th doesn't sound right. my pd was on the 3rd and we conceived the 14th. i know this because we only had sex the 14th and the 26th of feb. so it had to be the 14th. so our time line was. feb 3rd - starting pd, feb 14th - conceived, march 6th - found out we were 4 weeks pregnant.
school, work, homework, studying, and a baby is not easy. it can have frustrating moments. just try hard and so your best. that bundle of joy will be worth all the hard work and sacrifices.
good luck hun.
I am 21 years old, married, working, have 2 children (3 yr old son and 3 month old daughter), and going to school for nursing. so you can do it, it is possible. not the easiest, but possible.
my husband and i both work, we are renting a house, pay all of our own bills, and our children have more than they could need/want. money wise..our bills (rent, gas, electric, water, cell phones, house phone/high speed internet, car insurance, car payment, dish) come to roughly $1400 a month. i live in a small town so rent is cheaper here than other places. my husband works 40 hours a week monday through friday. currently im working 32 hours a week.
"Right now you're about 3 weeks pregnant. Your baby-in-the-making is a tiny ball of several hundred cells that are multiplying madly. In the next week or two, you may see a positive result on a pregnancy test." it is weird that you already have had a positive test. it is rather soon for this. your due date will be Nov. 10th. i know this because my last period before my daughter was feb 3rd, 2010, she was due nov 10th, 2010, and born nov. 13th. was your period that started on the 3rd normal? if it was lighter maybe you have been pregnant longer and it was just some bleeding (spotting or maybe implantation bleeding)? having a pd on the 3rd and conceiving on the 8th doesn't sound right. my pd was on the 3rd and we conceived the 14th. i know this because we only had sex the 14th and the 26th of feb. so it had to be the 14th. so our time line was. feb 3rd - starting pd, feb 14th - conceived, march 6th - found out we were 4 weeks pregnant.
school, work, homework, studying, and a baby is not easy. it can have frustrating moments. just try hard and so your best. that bundle of joy will be worth all the hard work and sacrifices.
good luck hun.
I feel like I'm 30 years old w// 2 kids...im only 17?
poorgirl!!
well, my Mom car broke and she lost her job so, I'm being forced to get a job. It's so much stress, I have to pay bills etc && feed my family..I have to walk a mile and ahalf to school everyday, whether its snowing or not. sometimes my grandma will give me a ride, but i can tell she dont like giving me one, so i just get bundled up and walk! then, after school, i have to walk again..My aunt lives right in front of the school and I asked her for a ride and she told me she doesn't have gas. She always has gas in her car, && as i was walking she let her sister take her car, to go to the store. i feel like im worthless. when my mom had a car, i would take her daughter everywhere, even if i was on dead E! like she just didn't care at all. nobody will give me a ride, so im forced to walk,w/ a soar throat.All i have is slippers and flats, i'm saving my money up for some warm boots now...
Plus, i have to go to school, its so much stress. somedays, just wanna drop out because its so much stress. but, i wanna grow up and take care of my mom one day. i dont want to be broke and have my kids walking a mile and a half...i wake up worrying about, "is the electric going to get cut off today" or "how am i going to get to school".....ifeel like i shouldn't have to worry about these kinda things and everybody at school thinks i have the most perfect life ever. i barely even get to eat. my dad doesn't care at all, he even told me i wasn't his daughter, alli could do is cry, because i don't understand why he's so mean to me..
Any advice?
WOW YOU DIDNT EVEN READ THE QUESTIONI SAID I "FEEL"! I DONT HAVE KIDS!
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yeah---finish school and get the h*** out of there as soon as you turn 18.
yeah---finish school and get the h*** out of there as soon as you turn 18.
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