will me and my kids be able to survive on our own?

aunisty

my husband came home from work afew days ago and i had this strong urge to go out to his truck. so i went there and was looking around and i found a pair of womens underware! i panicked, came in the house, started screaming and told him he had to leave right away.

he said he would leave.

he was mostly the bread winner and made approx. $3200 a month. i work my butt off as a CNA and only make $1950 a month after taxes. we have 5 kids ranging from ages 2-13, a pregnant dog expecting 10 puppies in june, and 2 other dogs. and we have a cat and a pet rat.

keep in mind, my cousin babysits the 2 younger kids for only $50 a week while i work and my house is paid off so i only have these bills-

house taxes- 100 a month
house insurance- 50 a month
cable, internet, phone package- 115 a month
electric- 65 a month
car insurance- 85 a month
heat- (summer months) 50 a month
and water and sewer $50 a month
and daycare 200 a month
and my fancy table im paying 45 a month on

i usually take the kids bowling or roller skating too for $30-40 a week so $120 a month
and i spend about $110 on the animals a month

and i pack home lunches for school.

will we be able to survive without my husband, and how soon can i get child support and what do i have to do?

Answer
You have done really well to have put your family budget together so quickly. This is definitely the first thought to consider when parting ways with an ex. You work way too hard to put up with any crap from Mr. Wiggley.

On the other hand, your ex is still the kids father and should be treated as such. Get to a lawyer right away and get an emergency hearing for child support. Your husband will fight back, so it is important to prepare carefully and cooly.

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is this what most families do?

Kim

im 16 and a girl and when im 17, my parents are buying me a car. i have 3 younger siblings, but the one closest to my age is 13 so when im a sophomore in college, he will have his license too. i asked my parents if i would be bringing my car to college with me and they said no because then it will be yours AND your brothers' car. so then i wont have a car at college and when i come home on breaks and stuff we will have to share the car. is this what most families do? or does each kid get a car (if they get a car)?
do you need a car in college? what if im going far?

Answer
That would be what a lot of middle or low class families would do where they don't have enough money as is. Getting a car, insurance, plus gas money can raise up the bill.So, they just have their children share cars, so the parents can afford to pay other things such as phone bills, gas and electric bills, etc.You don't need a car for college, but it is helpful.You could always take the bus or you could make some friends and catch a ride with them.

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